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Paul Garelick was a member of
the House of Bamboo from 1962-1965. During his HOB
days, Paul was definitely the tallest member
towering four or five inches over six feet and was
probably the most athletic member leading HOB to
first place in the intramuals in 1963-64 and second
place in 1964-65. Paul was the best handball player
at Queens College and had first place sewn up for
HOB in that tournament. Paul also loved the HOB
mixers with female house plans which in the early
days were held in members' basements. Paul would
bring his tapes, which he made of his favorite
dance songs on the old fashioned reels, and tape
player/recorder. I still remember the big New
Years' Eve party we had in my basement to ring in
1964 with most of the HOB members attending with
their dates, and dancing until two or three in the
morning to the music of Paul's tapes (mostly slow
and close).
Paul was part of the famous HOB
trio of himself, John Jokl and Barry Tivin, who
remained lifetime friends and who all sadly passed
away in the past five years. Paul married John's
sister Lillian who was also a great friend of HOB
while attending QC. Paul graduated Queens College
in 1965 as an accounting major, and then became a
mathematics teacher. He retired as a math teacher
from Benjamin Cardozo High School in Queens several
years ago. Paul had a very active retirement and
played tennis and jogged or walked everyday. Paul
also ran Come Together with Barry Tivin for many
years, which was a very successful singles company
on Long Island. Paul did use his QC accounting
education for his tax preparation business. Paul
and Lillian were also expert bridge players and
instructors.
Paul was in great physical shape
when he suddenly passed away in February 2005 while
he was watching television in his lounge chair at
the age of 61. I remember in college he never drank
or smoked and then when we went on a cruise
together in the summer 2003 to Cozumel and Belize,
Paul still didn't drink or smoke and never had.
Paul and Lillian were a great couple and loads of
fun to be with. Ruthann and I still can't believe
Paul left this world. Paul was easy going, happy, a
great athlete, and seemed like he would live
forever just like the House of Bamboo. Paul is
survived by his wife Lillian, who was a teacher and
is now a top administrator for the NYC Department
(formerly Board) of Education working in the old
Tweed Courthouse, and their twins, Lauren who is a
Health and Physical Education teacher on Long
Island and Jason who is an Assistant District
Attorney in Queens County.
Submitted by Mike
Solomon
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